Sunday, September 13, 2015

Surrounded by Love
My Childhood Family Web


The photos above are of people with whom I shared very special relationships as a child and who continue to influence my life to this day.

My mom-My mother was an older mom. I was born when she was 43. This never affected her ability to be an involved and active mom. In the photo above, she was actually riding a skateboard as I rode my bike. She always participated in activities that I enjoyed and was involved as a volunteer at my school. She always let me know how proud she was of my accomplishments and supported me in anything I tried. As an adult, I feel that I reflect her caring nature and positive attitude. She was fearless, faithful and family oriented. I hope to share these qualities with my sons as they grow.

My dad-My dad was one of the hardest working and most generous people I have ever known. He traveled for his business and was often only home on the weekends. I am sure that he was often exhausted, but he never showed it. He always had time for me and accepted me for who I was. I could talk to him about anything, never fearing judgment. I try to carry on his legacy by helping others whenever I can.

My oldest sister, Anne-Anne was a teenager when I was growing up. She had her own friends, interests, and activities, yet she always included me. I even remember tagging along on a few of her dates. I wanted so much to be all grown up like her, and she never made me feel too young to be around. She made me feel included and loved. As adults, we still have a very close bond. Her grandson is the same age as my twin sons. We enjoy sharing stories about them and watching them grow up together.

My godmother, Margaret-Margaret, or as I called her, Margie, passed away when I was young. It was the first time I had ever lost someone I loved. Whenever I was with her, I was the center of her world and felt enveloped in her love.She sparked and fueled creativity in me. We were always doing some kind of project or production. In the photo above, she is painting my face before a show that we were going to put on for my family. I credit her with my artistic ability and creativity. I hope to instill these qualities in the children I have relationships with.

Here is a note that she wrote to my mom about me. I will cherish it always!



5 comments:

  1. Hi Maureen,
    I loved reading your memories and important details about those that influenced your life. Reading your memories about your sister sounded very similar to that of my brother and I. I used to follow him everywhere and wanted to do everything with him. I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your Godmother while you were so young, but it’s such a beautiful thing that you carry on what she taught you into your adult hood. Having a strong web of love around you growing up helps to enhance how you develop as an adult. The stronger the web, the stronger your foundation is.

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  2. Hi Maureen, I so enjoyed reading your childhood web. I can very much relate to your family situation. After my parents divorced my mom got remarried and had my baby sister at the age of 43. My mom like your mom was very active and involved. I love how your sisters grandkids are the same age as your twin boys! that is special!

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  3. I love your family web. I always wished I had an older sibling just like yours and I feel like I do just by what you shared with us today. Thank you !

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  4. I am sure the letter from your late Godmother is definitely a treasure to you!! It touched my heart reading it!!!

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  5. Hello Maureen,

    I love your family web. I always wished I had a sibling to share the good times with. The poem from your godmother was touching.

    Candice

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